Think sexy costumes are just for Halloween? Think again! Whether it be some cute cat ears, a naughty schoolgirl uniform or a risqué nurse, sexy costumes can be a great way to spice up your sex life, boost your confidence and live out your wildest fantasies through role-playing.
Whilst exciting, if you’ve never experimented with sexy costume lingerie before, the thought of exploring this new dimension with your partner may feel intimidating. That’s why today we’re talking about sexy costumes, how to introduce them and how they can change your sex life for the better.
The benefits of sexy costumes
Roleplay isn’t just about changing your appearance. In fact, when you change what you’re wearing in the bedroom, you adopt a new persona too. Many women find themselves feeling more confident in sexy costume lingerie, allowing them to be more open and experiment more than they would have otherwise, bringing them closer to their partners. For example, if you’re looking to take on a dominant role but find yourself too shy under normal circumstances, a naughty cop outfit may just do the trick.
Likewise, sexy costumes can bring newfound excitement and intrigue, allowing you to explore your deepest fantasies.
How to introduce sexy costumes into the bedroom
As with anything bedroom-related, it is crucial that you discuss the idea with your partner first and make sure they’re comfortable. This may feel a little awkward at first but chances are they’ll be quite supportive. Explain your fantasies and what you’d like to get out of them clearly. There’s no need to go into every little detail, but some good opening lines are:
- ‘I think it’d be quite sexy if…’
- ‘The idea of … really turns me on.’
- ‘How would you feel about…’
If your partner seems put off about your fantasy over a boss, teacher or secretary, be patient, reassure them and frame it in a different way. As always, communication and setting boundaries is key.
The next step is to choose a sexy costume to wear that makes you feel comfortable, confident and empowered. Choose a scenario, a persona and consider adding a few props. Remember the most important thing is to have fun and enjoy yourself!
Fancy Lingerie has a wide range of sexy costumes and lingerie sets that will make sure your role play fantasies get off to a flying start!